40 Tips on how to work successfully with your partner
Added by Lynn Tulip on June 25, 2010
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Avoid disagreements
Working with your partner is not necessarily an easy thing to do. Before you start you need to set out some ground rules to make things clear about how you will work together. Even the most suited and happiest of couples can disagree over finances, working practices and family because men and women work in different ways.
My suggestions on how to maintain your relationship and to ensure a successful business partnership in no particular order are:
- Communicate honestly and openly with each other at all times
- Listen actively
- Set clear agendas, daily if necessary.
- Manage daily expectations to avoid disappointment, resentment and missed opportunities
- Allocate sufficient office/desk space for each of you – there may be times when you need to work alone
- Discuss how and what you will share with regard to office equipment, PCs, files etc
- Have a shared sense of humour
- Create common goals and objectives
- Set ground rules and formalities for the business and the business partnership
- Agree to disagree at times
- Be willing to take tough decisions and/or risks together
- Eliminate power struggles or control issues
- Share the future visions of business, family and partnership
- Manage your realistic expectations
- Allow yourself or your partner space to take time out alone
- Discover your individual strengths and limitations
- Discuss how best to harness your strengths and skills so you both accomplish what is needed
- Appreciate each other’s talents, skills and areas of expertise
- Avoid competing with each other
- Trust each other
- Do what you say you will do, when you say you will do it
- Divide your business responsibilities
- Be flexible and sensitive when you need to be
- Value each other and your individual work styles and preferences
- Reflect on the benefits of working together
- Respect each other
- Keep work and family time separate, stick to schedules
- Be happy, enthusiastic and positive at work
- Treat each other with courtesy
- Avoid arguments and criticism, settle disagreements in a timely and rational way
- Set aside business-free time and use it wisely
- Celebrate your successes
- Value feedback and be open to change
- Write things down, communication is key
- Get outside professional support and help when necessary
- Develop a transition from work life to home life
- Prevent problems by planning and communicating
- Keep talking to each other
- Go on ‘dates’
- Plan together
Any other suggestions?
Lynn
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What a great list Lynn, having worked with both my husbands I know how hard it is to live and work with someone.
Kev and I make a conscious effort to have a 'date' night, kids to bed early, dress up, nice meal and then a snuggle on the sofa. It's vital to talk about something other than work all the time. Kev has also introduced the idea of no one goes near the computers on a Sunday…. just so we have time as a family that isn't dominated by business.
Anyway, did I say what a great list? there are things on here that I can implement.
Thanks Sarah – I worked with my late husband and learnt some lessons there! This time round I work solo but still need to think about some of the positive 'messags'
Now, no computers on Sunday… Will see if that works! Have a nice weekend