How you can save money on your wedding or other event – by being greener

Angie’s recent post about saving money – and how to save money on her upcoming nuptials (congratulations again, Angie!) – raised some interesting issues on how being greener can cost you less in the long run. Green wedding

In my recent book “How To Get Married In Green” (shameless plug) my original remit was to research and share ways in which creating a greener wedding is good for the planet. What was fascinating, as I found out, is that being greener very often means being less expensive, too.

And although the focus here is on weddings, these money-saving ideas will work for a number of different types of event and celebrations.

So here are some key tips on how to be green AND reduce your costs…

Jewellery. In terms of engagement rings and wedding rings (and other precious gifts) it’s far greener to go for used jewellery and even have old jewellery of yours melted down and remade into what you want, thereby recycling. The mining of precious metals is being revised due to the traditional types’ horrific effects on nature, but much of it is still dubious. If you want a new gemstone, a simulated diamond is likely to be a lot more eco-friendly than a diamond (or other precious stone) mined in the cruel, nature-stripping conditions still common in some parts of the world. Cost-saving result? Lots – especially if you go for simulated stones. (Never mind the moral cost saving.)

Stationery and communications. Whether you’re organising a wedding or other celebration, a lot of money and resources can be used up on paper-based communications. Do yourselves a favour and use the online variety which is cheaper, more convenient, more immediate and doesn’t have to be boring. (And if there are a few people on your list who do not have / refuse to use online communications, a few short notes and stamps won’t break the bank.) Cost saving? Depending on your event, could be hundreds or even thousands of £££s/$$$s.

Clothes/fashions. This is especially relevant where weddings are concerned but can also be an issue with other family/business celebrations. Do you really need to buy new? If you need a wedding dress or other special outfit, why not check out secondhand shops (Oxfam are especially useful here), eBay and other sources. And besides that, there is the option of hiring a stunning designer outfit for a fraction of what it would cost to buy from numerous hire businesses around the UK. Cost saving? A lot. End of.

Gifts. Many celebrations – especially those of a familial nature – require gifts to be given to whoever you’re celebrating. Do you really need to give an expensive, brand-new gift? Or could a second-hand item, lovingly chosen, be even more appropriate? And if you’re organising an event, would donations to a favourite charity be more appropriate as a “gift” everyone could contribute to? Cost saving? Perhaps not much, but a more worthwhile choice.

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Flowers and other decorations. A huge amount of money can be spent on these things when a little imagination can create a wonderful scene for much less, and be greener as well. Consider using locally grown, seasonal plants and flowers which are far kinder to the environment one way or another. Consider hiring topiary and other potted delights, which are re-usable. Consider using and/or hiring other forms of decoration like fruit, vegetables, pine cones, ivy, pebbles, sea shells and more. Cost saving? A fortune, if you’re happy to rule out flowers that are out-of-season.

Receptions. Do you really need to go wild on a four-course meal, especially if it involves foodstuffs from far away that cost a fortune? Why not consider pot-luck meals … brunches … tea parties … cocktail parties with drinks and canapés … all in the main more eco-friendly and a damned sight cheaper than the whole hog. Cost saving? Potentially substantial, and possibly enchanting.

Transportation. Does your wedding or other event REALLY need to take place in a charming village in the forests of Latvia or on the sands of the Bahamian Out Islands? Or could you do the planet a great favour (and save your family and friends a small fortune) by choosing a location that requires you and your folks to travel a minimum distance so saving hugely on airmile and road transport pollution? And even at a local level you can do more, by suggesting a central meeting point after which everyone travels by train or hired coach to the ultimate venue and back. Cost saving? Hundreds or more in air fares, plus a fair amount of individual car/fuel/pollution costs and a great deal in terms of saved (breathalysed) drivers’ licences.

That’s it for now but if you want any more ideas, or have any questions, please let us have them here!

Suze

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  • http://www.carcare-direct.co.uk Martin

    I’ve sen some lovely weddings where they ahve used an old bus to transport the guests to the reception. Ideal too if you want a snog on the back seat
    A young relative recently got married and there was some outrage that the couple had asked for cash. Have to say and in light of your charming article, it makes sense and thereby avoids uneccesary wrapping paper and unwanted gifts
    cool bananas
    Martin

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  • Morag

    I hired my wedding dress. I can't see the point in spending hundreds or even thousands on a dress you're never going to wear again – after all, even if you got divorced and remarried, you're not going to wear the same dress, are you?

    I got married in 1990 and my Dad had cunningly taken out a policy that provided £1,500 on my wedding day. I think it pretty much covered everything. But, then, our aim in getting married was not to impress everyone else, as seems to be so often the case.

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  • http://www.birdsontheblog.co.uk/ Sarah Arrow

    When I got married two years ago (nearly) many of the guests helped out – one baked our cake, another took the photos and it had a really nice 'small town' feel to it. We asked for vouchers if people wanted to send us something but we had everything except a bed and didn't need anything!

    Suze gave Kev some great pointers in keeping things green – to the extent that I hitched a lift with the photographer to the church and the videographer to the reception :)

    Getting married in the evening saves money too, we got married at 5pm.

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  • http://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Write-Winning-Non-Fiction-Publishing/dp/1907498060/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1267183488&sr=1-1 Suzan St Maur

    Absolutely right, Martin. Cash may seem unromantic but it's a damned sight more eco-friendly (and common-sense friendly) than most brand-new gifts … and that's before you even think about the wrapping paper. Cool bananas, indeed…

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  • http://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Write-Winning-Non-Fiction-Publishing/dp/1907498060/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1267183488&sr=1-1 Suzan St Maur

    Your wedding was a brilliant example of how such an occasion can be more green, more fun, more memorable and more cost-efficient than the extravagazas so many people fall victim to. You're stars!

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    You're absolutely right, Morag. To spend thousands on an outfit you will only wear once – in our current climate of trying to minimise waste and redistribute value to cultures less fortunate than ours – is, frankly, insane.

    So glad you did what you did. And your Dad was wise to take out that policy! xx

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  • Morag

    I chose the first dress I tried on. It was the right size, it was pretty, it would do. My best friend was horrified – she told me I was supposed to spend 4 hours looking through dresses! Not a hope in hell.

    Because the dress wasn't what my wedding was about.

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  • idahorner

    Interesting how weddings can get very expensive! In Africa most folk chip in and its not unusual for a couple to decide to get married without a penny to their name!

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    The dress certainly isn't what a wedding is supposed to be about, but it's horrifying to see just how much a wedding is an excuse for a bride to be “a princess for a day.” Someone was telling me just a couple of days ago about a bride she knew who began having an affair with another man during her hen weekend, but went ahead with the wedding because she wanted to be the star of the show … then left her husband the next day and went off with the new lover. Apparently the wedding cost the families £50,000. What a criminal waste, and what an amazingly awful bride…

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    Weddings in western countries are not always the intimate, loving occasions they should be, with many turning into opportunities for families to brag and show off how extravagant they are. (See Morag's comment above, and my reply to it, which illustrate that point.) It's sickening, frankly. And it's good to know that in Africa, at least, people have still got their priorities right.

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  • Morag

    I should be shocked, but I'm afraid I'm not. I had a secretary at work who spent 2 years working out every detail of her Big Day. And all I could think of was the waste of time. I mean, who cares whether the napkins are the same colour as the invitation stationary?? (she obviously did).

    In our local paper, there were two brides who got married at the same church one after the other. They had both bought the same “exclusive” dress from a bridal shop and been assured that it was unique. Because one of the weddings had run a bit late, they met each other outside the church and saw their dresses were identical. One bride was on anti-depressants and complained that her wedding was ruined. The other said “well, it was a disappointment, but it was only a dress”. I'm with the second one.

    I advised my brother to have a wedding where everything would go wrong, because that's the wedding you remember, not the one that goes like clockwork.

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    I love the story of the two brides in the identical dresses. I thought you were going to say they bought one dress between them to save money and be greener! Soooo funny – and so pathetic.

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  • Carolyn

    Some young friends of mine were married not long ago, against the bride's family's wishes. The groom's family took it upon themselves to give the kids as nice a start as possible, but we were all on a very limited budget. Everyone did something, I made the cake, my son took the photos, groom's Mum made the dresses, groom's grandfather provided limos, somebody's sister did hair and makeup. We made the reception itself a pot-luck and the meal was stupendously good. Nobody copped out with a few veggies and a dip, there were lines of slowcookers and casserole dishes, fabulous home-made traditional ethnic wedding recipes from all the nationalities represented. Huge salads and desserts galore. Everyone seemed to pour all their love and good wishes into their 'pot' and it was the finest wedding meal I've ever eaten.

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    Pot luck meals are a fantastic way to celebrate a wedding – so much greener, cheaper and far nicer than expensive rubber chicken served by impersonal caterers. What a lucky couple your friends were to have such a wonderful group of friends and relatives!

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  • Morag

    I simply must tell you about the alcohol at our reception.

    We hired the village hall for the reception, and had the do catered. The hall had no bar, so any booze had to be brought by us. Brian and I had bought the champagne in France, for the toasts, and the rest was up to my Dad to organise.

    A few days before the wedding, I asked him what he had got for the 120 guests to drink (you can see, I was minutely involved in the planning … not!). He told me he had still water, sparkling water, orange juice, apple juice etc etc. I gently pointed out, this was a wedding, and people would expect some alcohol as well.

    So we had 2 x 2 litre bottles of Liebfraumilch as well, to add to the list.

    Now you can understand why the £1,500 insurance policy paid for the wedding, can't you?! But the thing is, it was moments like these that made the day stand out. :)

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