Wedding, Shush, it’s a Secret…
My world is a little traumatic at the moment as I have got to get my backside in gear. 
I am getting married in eight weeks time but as normal (for me) I am trying to be green and make it as cheap as possible without turning too neurotic. I am safe in the knowledge that none of my family read this blog so I thought it would be fun to share it with you all.
Just as well I have you to share this with as we have not told our families we are getting married. Is it possible to get wed without all the grief and stress that comes with getting married? Besides, from what I have seen it seems to cost a small fortune with most things going to waste at the end of the night.
We are getting married because of the commitment we are making to each other rather than planning a day full of people who have only turned up for the free booze and grub. Don’t get me wrong you have those you love nearest to you but in the back of your mind you know if you invite “Granddad” you have to have “Uncle Vince” who is probably someone you only see at Christmas and got barred from his local for drinking it dry, and then driving his Harley Davidson . Through the Bar!
Our solution is simple, don’t invite anyone!
Not because we don’t want them, just because we can’t cope with the stress and my partner is painfully shy. Our thinking is to get wed now and then, at a later date, throw a big party and invite everyone. That should keep all family and friends happy.
I have found my dress (my “New”) which was a steal at £98 as for the veil, no luck as yet. Shoes , well lets just say, as they are my passion, I found them before my dress! Shoes cost £40 so wedding so far £138, cool. Due to the fact I have a tendency to resemble a bag of spanners in the morning, a hairdresser £50 (including tip), make-up artist £0 (friend in beauty college), will be required.
The registry office is £90 with a registration fee of around £40 so no massive cost so far and I am really getting quite excited. The Tiara is my “borrowed” and a loan from my sister. I would really like the “Blue” to be a West Ham United garter and as I have a friend who works in the shop, I am hoping for staff discount!
As for the “Old“, I am wearing a small piece of my Mother’s jewellery as the wedding day was chosen because it would have been her 70th Birthday and all tears aside, I wish she could be there although, I am sure I will feel her spirit on the day. Our transport is my trusty old Micra after which, to be honest I have no idea, my plans ended when we walk out of the registry office!
We have a week booked off work and a puppy sitter so I think a camping holiday in Wales will be called for and perhaps a Hotel on our Wedding Night but to be honest I would be just as happy at home. As you can see decisions have to be made and time is running out. Can I get all this done in time? I hope so.
BLOODY HELL I FORGOT THE RINGS!!!!
Ok I know a Jeweller but I prefer Silver so they will have to be specially made, oops, that will take time, I had better get on the phone….
Take Care People
About Sarah ArrowSarah Arrow is the managing editor of Birds on the Blog, in real life she is the communications director of a same day courier service. She is an enthusiastic UK based pro-blogger and co- author of the soon to be published Zero to Blogger
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Twitter: SuzeStMWrites
You could try Lily Bella Bridal for ..”as for the veil, no luck yet.” They are based in High Wycome, Buckinghamshire http://www.lilybella.co.uk/ (@lilybellabridal on Twitter) they have a sale on at the moment – save up to 75%. Wishing you every future happiness
Suze, I would love to although my writting skills are not the greatest. Thanks for your comments.
Twitter: Angiewelly1
Thanks for the tip, I will go and have a look. If I find one I like you can bet your tip will be mentioned on a future blog. Take Care Angie
Twitter: Angiewelly1
A lovely piece and true to the meaning of marriage, rather than a wedding.
As for honeymooning in Wales – I can recommend Three Cliffs Bay for camping, it's not flashy but it is in a wonderful location and has an aura of gentleness and (without wishing to sound like a complete hippy!) peace.
Wishing you both so much luck for you wonderful sounding day.
Mary D-W x
Angie, I can tell you for definite that you will really enjoy your wedding day, because you're keeping it all in perspective. You can't hide the details from your late mother, but I'm sure she is cheering you on from the sidelines.
There is only one rule: ENJOY it.
Hi Mary, thanks for your comments. As I have yet to plan a honeymoon your tip sounds great! As we are (according to my little sister) total hippies it sounds perfect. Will let you know if we go. Angie x
Twitter: Angiewelly1
Hi Morag, I like you idea of being cheered from the sidelines and I am sure your right. I feel marriage today is more about the sand the fancy day rather than what it actually means to the bride and groom so we are hoping our day will change that, at least for us. Thanks for your comments Angie x
Twitter: Angiewelly1
I just wanted to wish you and your husband to be, every happiness
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